Rational V/S Emotional Thoughts

When a child is born, it has complete freedom to decide how to lead life, as in when and how much to feed oneself, when and how much to sleep, when to play, but there are no words to express that. Only way to express is CRY. Cry out so someone will come and give the desired things or comfort to meet the needs. A self managed and less confusing life.

As child grows it starts understanding words, it tries to relate things or feelings to WORDS and slowly limit starts to sets in. It tries to relate itself to people around but again no one is single fit. More the people around more it will try to be some aspect of everyone. That's where first step in confusion starts when it looses its free identity and start gaining bit of all.

Next stage comes when schooling starts. Of course education has great role to play in forming personalities, but it doesn't come for free. Education brings in other minds in close proximity to the child. Depending on the inclination child chooses its company. So, now, education system starts making the child more and more rational or logical, but at the same time company around build up its inner aspects or rather emotional persona.

As time passes, things gets more complex for this new arrival in world. It looses more and more of true IDENTITY it was born with and tries to be some of all it met or got acquainted with. Logical and Rational aspect of things via education or social set-up build up further as child grows to adult. This complex and confusing environment results in very confusing and completely lost adults. Again, cannot blame system system or education set-up for this, but irony is that this is the result. Now, as this adult further grows and moves into different stages from marriage to parenthood and further on, there are situations when it was called to take decisions. So someone who is completely considered as INSIGNIFICANT to DECIDE . suddenly asked to decide, and then stick to it. This is when struggle between Rational mind(A mind developed by system and external set-up) and Emotional mind (A mind developed by inner instincts or the seed with which child was born) starts.

As life progress, struggle and complexity increases. More and more of situation where struggle between Rational and Emotional mind intensifies. The point comes when individual can no more take such struggle within and start seeking to stabilize these thought process. This is where process of stepping zone of wisdom begins. Zone of wisdom is where Rational and Emotional aspects are completely balanced. This balanced thought process results in making decisions not for personal gains but for larger good of connected souls and society as whole. Irony is how much ever one tries to bring this balance to the conflicting thoughts and decide, each decision is further questioned and analyzed by communities. These questions becomes input for new seeker to get more finer balance within and decide. Journey thus continues to enhance degree of wisdom to get more closer to perfect mix of rational and emotional decisions.